Corrimal Coal Company in NSW had bullhead rail in the 1950s, and most industrial lines dating from around 1920s used old second hand bullhead rail. Rhondda Colliery near Newcastle had bullhead rail up at the head shunt. As for platforms, check Greg Edwards Data Sheets
Datasheets As for fence distances, don't worry, the Wallsend branch near Newcastle had limited space and the fence was about 6ft from the track. Also, well ballasted track that was common at the 1900 era on the mainlines was level with the railhead. Timber buildings were common, but brick buildings were common in cities. Up until the 57 class 4-8-2 locomotives came into service is when they started to look at auto coupler knuckles (buckeye). If your track is overgrown, you can't tell what rail is there. Timber platforms were not uncommon, the halts on the Oberon branch for example were totally wood. I would say to add corrugated water butts where you can, they were everywhere, houses, station buildings and loco sheds.
Hope that helps.